Thursday, August 03, 2006

the busy-ness

"I'm a bit busy right now, I'll talk to you later? Chal bye", has been typical Theeta response for five months now.

"Dude, meeting, Jai. Later." Sundy is even breezier!

"Hey sweety, what's up? I am out with Sumitu right now. I'll call you as soon as I reach home okay? Bye, take care", Bec's sugary reply is such.

"Arey I'm out on audit. Call you on reaching home", Gauri keeps his word always.

"I am not even in Mumbai dude. I'll call you on reaching Mumbai" and *click* is how Ash concludes so he is not charged for roaming.

"Studying", "shopping", "outing", "friends", "marraige" and multiple reasons refrain PJ from talking to me!

Tanny does it the best way! DISCONNECT the call! No justification to be given at that point of time as to why and how busy he is!

Isn't very difficult to figure out what to do next! Open blogger.com and type in all the frustration!

Now I do understand how self-centered and selfish I act here. I shouldn't keep calling people just because I miss them! C'mon they have their own lives! They have far more important things to do! They have work to do! Look at me! I do have work to do myself, but I still have time to talk! I fail to figure out how and why is it such a case. Then the insecurities one by one start crowding the mind. "Are they trying to avoid me? Is it all over?" I do not understand why my mind enters this territory at all? But when it starts wandering in the "lonesome" zone, chances are, it stays there till someone breaks the silence and says a nice "Hello" to you! But then I realise that I've wasted too much time pondering over self-created "mysteries"! Feeling stupid I tell the person on the phone, "Hey! Am a bit busy right now, is it okay if I give a call back in sometime?"

18 comments:

sneha said...

haha! don't worry, incase u have a libra friend u *must* forgive him/her for not calling u back, they do it only out of sheer laziness.. nothing else.. n if theres a saggi(or aries or leo for tht matter) frnd who hung up on u, don't worry again, cuz sags(blunt and frank as they are) are incapable of being tactful.. of course, they feel pathetic about it later on.

sun4none said...

theeta - aries
sundy - aries
bec - virgo
gauri - taurus
ash - gemini
tanny - virgo
pj - gemini
me - leo

no libras here.. so no laziness
2 aries here.. one calls whn needed and whn not needed.. other calls only whn tht person has some work! :)

raghu said...

raghu is leo... n snehas corrct...me is not tactful..always hangs up n nvr calls...lol

sun4none said...

me a leo too.. but weirdly i talk a lotttt and makes it a point 2 return calls too.. and yeah.. i do call ever1 too.. so me - an exceptional leo or lets not generalise.. take it as u want! :)

sneha said...

oh!! leos call abck! i never said leos don't call back.. libras MAY not call abck.. n yes..leos are wonderful.. iam expecially fond of leos! n sun great frnds u msutve got.. no water sign.. good! great in fact.. i can safely assume tht the aries n geminis might be ur best frnds??

sneha said...

*especially
n sags are the most untacful of the lot! all three fire signs are frank all the same.. leos may not be all tht tactless.. they lie a lot!of course, all those lies are harmless(unlike the piscean lie)..

sun4none said...

sneha dudette! gemini (pj) and aries (sundy) are like my bestest pals! jeez god.. gimme ur number.. am contacting u 4 ur astro services.. let me know ur charges :P

yea.. am a leo.. dont lie a lot..tho exaggerate a lot.. so mebbe theres some lies in it :P

sneha said...

anytime! :D

of course, leonine lies are only displays of their being braggarts!! can't blame em though.. astrology is very relevant and helpful, you know.

sun4none said...

yeah.. my mom's good at it too... and me belives it so much tht i run away frm it.. cz i start speculating n arghhh... my mind gets all messed! :)

so best.. take it as it comes.. load nahi lene ka :)

raghu said...

oye sneha mera bhi kuch kar na...im lea n cancer ka mix breed..lol
mera best frnd kay hoga?

sneha said...

raghu, u a cusp? 22nd july?please pardon my memory..

sun, ur bday must be around the corner(or might have just gone by) ??

sneha said...

raghu, u a cusp? 22nd july?please pardon my memory..

sun, ur bday must be around the corner(or might have just gone by) ??

sun4none said...

u got rag's b'date rt.. mine on 13th aug! comin up!

raghu said...

k my best frnds r saggis ..2 of em
leo..23rd july
pisces.. n cancer

sun4none said...

hey sneha.. u start charging man.. u'll be a millionaire in no time man! u hav a client in raghu already.. :)

Anonymous said...

Err... i guess you guys haven't heard yet: astrology is bullshit, and Linda Goodman is being tried for crimes against humanity.

sneha said...

@anonymous- i am not aware of Linda being tried. pardon my ignorance. even if she is being tried i don't see WHY or HOW it should affect MY endeavour in finding out the truth for myself and WHY it should nullify the beliefs that i hold which are tried(pun not intended) and tested truths. and for your information, the part of astrology which deals with people's personalities is a very reliable way of really knowing the people you know. i wonder why u have chosen to not reveal your identity. one request- please post the relevant links that hold information about the said case. anyway, just for the record, in all of her books that i have read, Linda has strogly advised her readers against blindly believing what she says until they try it themselves and see for their own self. of course, if duds don't read that and then go about claiming rubbish then, it can't be helped.

sun4none said...

hey anonymous:

1) u choose 2 stay anonymous and therefore a chicken.. as u dont have the fuckin balls 2 tell the world who u are

2) u fuckin dont respect other's beliefs n go on 2 insult them

3) umm.. just fuck off :D